[The issues of concern
expressed in this story were the ones receiving greater media attention in the
‘90s. The issues may be different today within the various groupings but the substance
of unease is still the same.]
In January 1996, in
Nashville, Tennessee, more than 4,000 baseball coaches descended upon the
Opryland Hotel for the 52nd annual ABCA convention.
While waiting in line
to register, veteran coaches chatted about the lineup of speakers. One name
kept surfacing, always with the same sentiment — “John Scolinos is here? Oh,
man, worth every penny of my airfare.”
Who is John Scolinos?
Coach Scolinos was 78
years old and five years retired from a college coaching career that began in
1948. He shuffled to the stage to an impressive standing ovation, wearing dark
polyester pants, a light blue shirt, and a string around his neck from which
home plate hung — a full-sized, stark-white home plate.
After speaking for
twenty-five minutes, not once mentioning the prop hanging around his neck,
Scolinos appeared to notice the snickering among some of the coaches. Even
those who knew him had to wonder exactly where he was going with this, or if he
had simply forgotten about home plate since he’d gotten on stage. Then, finally
…
“You’re probably all
wondering why I’m wearing a home plate around my neck,” he said, his voice
growing irascible. The audience laughed, acknowledging the possibility. “I may
be old, but I’m not crazy. The reason I stand before you today is to share with
you baseball people what I’ve learned in my life, what I’ve learned about home
plate in my 78 years.”
Several hands went up
when Scolinos asked how many Little League coaches were in the room. “Do you
know how wide home plate is in Little League?”
After a pause, someone
offered, “Seventeen inches?”, more of a question than answer.
“That’s right,” he
said. “How about in Babe Ruth’s day? Any Babe Ruth fans in the house?” Another
long pause.
“Seventeen inches?” a
guess from another reluctant coach.
“That’s right,” said
Scolinos. “Now, how many high school coaches do we have in the room?” Hundreds
of hands shot up, as the pattern began to appear. “How wide is home plate in
high school baseball?”
“Seventeen inches,”
they said, sounding more confident.
“You’re right!” Scolinos
barked. “And you college coaches, how wide is home plate in college?”
“Seventeen inches!”
said in unison.
“Any Minor League
coaches here? How wide is home plate in pro ball?” “Seventeen inches!”
“Right! And in the
Major Leagues, how wide is home plate in the divisions? “Seventeen inches!”
“Sev-en-teen inches!”
he confirmed, his voice bellowing off the walls. “And what do they do with a
Big League pitcher who can’t throw the ball over seventeen inches?” Pause.
“They send him to Pocatello!” He hollered, drawing raucous laughter. “What they
don’t do is this: they don’t say, ‘Ah, that’s okay, Jimmy. If you can’t hit a
seventeen-inch target? We’ll make it eighteen inches or nineteen inches. We’ll
make it twenty inches so you have a better chance of hitting it. If you can’t
hit that, let us know so we can make it wider still, say twenty-five inches.'”
Pause. “Coaches, what
do we do when your best player shows up late for practice? Or, when team rules
forbid facial hair and a guy shows up unshaven? What if he gets caught
drinking? Do we hold him accountable? Or do we change the rules to fit him? Do
we widen the home plate? "
The chuckles gradually
faded as four thousand coaches grew quiet, the fog lifting as the old coach’s
message began to unfold. He turned the plate toward himself and, using a
Sharpie, began to draw something. When he turned it toward the crowd, point up,
a house was revealed, complete with a freshly drawn door and two windows. “This
is the problem in our homes today. With our marriages, with the way we parent
our kids. With our discipline.
We don’t teach
accountability to our kids, and there is no consequence for failing to meet
standards. We just widen the plate!”
Pause. Then, to the
point at the top of the house, he added a small American flag. “This is the
problem in our schools today. The quality of the students’ performance is going
downward and teachers have been stripped of the tools they need to be
successful, to educate and train our young people. We are allowing others to
widen home plate! Where is that getting us?”
Silence. He replaced
the flag with a Cross. “And this is the problem in the Church, where powerful
people in positions of authority have taken advantage of young children, only
to have such an atrocity swept under the rug for years. Our church leaders are
widening the home plate for themselves! And we allow it.”
“And the same is true
with our government. Our so-called representatives make rules for us that do
not apply to themselves. They take funds from lobbyists and foreign countries.
They no longer serve us. And we allow them to widen home plate! We see our
country falling into a dark abyss while we just watch.”
At a baseball
convention where the expectation was to learn something about curveballs and
bunting and how to run better practices, the audience learned something far
more valuable.
From an old man with a home
plate strung around his neck, they learned something about life, about themselves,
about weaknesses, and about responsibilities of leadership. They had to hold themselves
and others accountable to that which was right—lest families, faith, and
society move downward on an undesirable path.
“If I am lucky,” Coach
Scolinos concluded, “you will remember one thing from this old coach: if we
fail to hold ourselves to a higher standard, a standard of what we know to be
right; if we fail to hold our spouses and our children to the same standards;
if we are unwilling or unable to provide a consequence when they do not meet
the standard; and, if our schools, churches, and government fail to hold
themselves accountable to those they serve, there is but one thing to look
forward to …”
With that, he held the home
plate in front of his chest, turned it around, and revealed its dark black
backside, “…we have dark days ahead!.”
Coach Scolinos died in
2009 at the age of 91. Meeting him at an ABCA convention kept many coaches
returning year after year, looking for similar wisdom and inspiration from
other coaches. He was a great speaker because he was more than a baseball
coach. His message was clear—keep your players (no matter how good they are), your
children, your church, your government, and most of all, yourselves at
seventeen inches.
Don't widen the plate.
